Having multiple bridesmaids is being seen as the ultimate status symbol, chaos in the church and a FORTUNE on cheap evening dresses

Every helpmate wants to be the ablaze of her show. So why would any woman beleaguer herself with a dozen bridesmaids?

Well, like accepting assorted children, accepting assorted bridesmaids is apparent as the ultimate cachet symbol.

Five brides acquaint us why they abounding their alley with bridesmaids…

Daily Mail Femail collects via Jill Foster to accompany her copy on MULTIPLE BRIDESMAIDS - VIVIENNE EDGE From left to right: Nancy - sister , Lauren - friend (who also sang my first dance), Penny - sister , Carly - friend, Gabi - best friend + chief Aimee - ginger friend , Sarah - oldest friend, Anna - friend, Emily - friend, Ashleigh - friend

Vivienne Edge, 27, affiliated bedmate Adam Myers, 37, a acreage developer, on July 30. The brace reside in Leeds with their daughters, Mila, two, and Alexandra, eight months. Vivienne had ten bridesmaids and two annual girls. She said:

‘My fiance Adam started it if he appear he was accepting ten ushers because he had so abounding accompany — I thought: ‘Right, I’m accepting lots of bridesmaids, too.’

‘Luckily, though, if I counted up my best friends, the amount came to ten. I didn’t wish to accept an asperous number, as it would attending odd in the photographs. Our two daughters were annual girls.

‘Having lots of bridesmaids is apparent as something that the affluent and acclaimed ability do, as able-bodied as accustomed brides like myself, so it’s something of a cachet symbol.

A few humans acutely anticipation I was mad. My gran formed her eyes and laughed: ‘Why can’t you just do things like a accustomed person?

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‘There were no disagreements about the bridesmaid evening dresses we chose — a light-pink halterneck — admitting a brace of the girls afraid they ability be assuming a little too abundant cleavage. But they thought: ‘It’s Vivienne’s day, we’ll just go forth with whatever she wants.’ I absolutely accepted that.

‘We kept the amount down by affairs the gowns from the online banker ASOS, so the dress bill came to about £1,000. But as the accomplished marriage amount £55,000, it didn’t accomplish abundant of a cavity in the budget.

‘I had afraid that I would accept to organise all the girls, and that gave me a few hawkeye nights. But they were fabulous, and ablaze at organising themselves after abundant ascribe from me.

‘Thankfully, they helped calm my fretfulness on the morning, afore the ceremony. One of them even said: ‘I’m traveling to abrasion wedges, not stilettos, so that I can run anywhere you need.’ The ultimate sacrifice!

‘There were one or two mishaps, though. At one point, one of the girls opened a canteen of albino and it sprayed all over addition girl’s dress, so we concluded up dehydration her down with a hairdryer!’

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Jenni Clayton, 27, is a childminder. She lives with her bedmate Jez, 32, a telecoms manager, and their two accouchement in Caterham, Surrey. She’s assured their third adolescent in December. The brace affiliated in October 2014, and had ten bridesmaids and four annual girls. Jenni said:

‘There were moments if I was planning my marriage that even I anticipation I was mad to be accepting so abounding bridesmaids. Just accepting all of them — my earlier sister, Samantha, who was my maid of honour, my adolescent sister, cousins, nieces and my babe — to the aforementioned abode at the aforementioned time to try on evening dresses was a nightmare.

‘Eventually, we all managed to accommodated at Lakeside Shopping Centre in Essex, but that’s area the problems began.

‘Two of the girls were heavily pregnant, but would accept accustomed bearing by the time of the wedding; one was traveling to be heavily abundant on the day itself, some were slim, some were top-heavy. Judging sizes was acutely tricky.

‘Thankfully, it was simple to acquisition a dress that anybody admired in two altered colours, lavender and pink, while the four annual girls were in white.

‘But, of course, there was bickering. Some capital their hair like this, others capital their composition like that, some didn’t like the shoes. Others banned to pick, saying: ‘You decide, you’re the bride.’ There was no way I could amuse all of them, so we had a majority vote instead.

‘It could accept been actual pricey, too, but I’d asked some of the earlier bridesmaids if they’d buy their own dress to cut our costs. Each seemed blessed to pay. All in all, the apparel came to about £2,000. If I’m honest, my bedmate anticipation it was mad — but then, he had his best man, ten ushers and four pageboys, too. And yes, accepting 14 humans afterward me up the alley was hardly ridiculous!

‘We had 130 guests at the commemoration and 280 in the evening. All in all, the day amount about £30,000, which is a lot of money. We adopted money from assorted sources to pay for it and still haven’t had a honeymoon. But it was account it. I knew getting amidst by so abounding bridesmaids would accomplish me feel actual appropriate — and it did.’

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